There is a fifth dimension. In this dimension you’re constantly doing favors for absolutely nothing in return. In this dimension she tells you stories about other guys and how cute they are. You may also hear phrases like “I’m sorry but I think of you as a brother” or “why can’t the guys I like be like you?”
That’s right big fellow you guessed it, you have entered the friend zone!
So you really thought you were making progress? You took her out a few times. She has been calling you on a regular basis. You two even Netflix and chilled until you realize the chill part was just that chilling and nothing else. All of the sudden it slowly creeps up on you. The realization for her you are not boyfriend material. But you would make a perfect male friend. Sucks don’t it?
But don’t worry I’m going to help you get out of the friend zone. And right where you want to be and that’s between her erogenous zones. OK fellows so here it is the number one way to get out the friend zone is... are you ready? To stay out of the friend zone you have to never get put in there in the first damn place.
Disappointed in my big reveal? You shouldn’t be. If you get put in the friend zone it’s your fault and your fault only. Seriously think about it. When you first met her you felt her negative energy and you probably could tell she wasn’t interested in you.
But instead of cutting your losses you decided to take the buddy approach. And that was a big mistake. And even if you did start out with letting your intentions being known, somewhere down the line you ignored the warning signals. It’s like I said before stay out of the friend zone either she takes you serious from the start or you charge her to the game and move to the next female.
By never letting her forget that you want to be more than friends. She can never put you in that category. I don’t care how much she claims that you’re a nice guy, your reply should be thanks but I still want to have sex with you.
When she says you’re like a brother to me that’s nice but I’m not your brother and I want to have sex. And guys don’t actually use those words be creative with your reply but make sure it has the same intent. Now me I will actually say those words, but my swag is on 100 and my confidence level is off the roof. But like I said be creative and respectful but make it plain and clear you want more than a friendship
OK now if you have been in the friend zone for a while you can’t take the I’m trying to have sex approach. You already let it go too far. She is use to you being in that friend zone and has no intentions of letting you out.
But don’t worry I got your back. Here are three surefire ways to get out of the friend zone.
1. Stop being so damn available.
Stop letting her take advantage of you and your time. When she needs a favor let her know you are busy or at least charge her for it. Hanging pictures, moving furniture and paying for car repairs are boyfriend chores. And since you are not her boyfriend she shouldn’t expect those favors from you.
If you don’t like confrontations then go straight to number two.
That’s right ghost her cock teasing ass. Disappear for a while let her miss what she has been taking for granted. When I was younger I was friends with this one chick let’s call her college girl. After taking her out and loaning her money college girl still put me in the friend zone. I took her on Expensive dates but no sex, nice gifts but no sex. I even loan her money that she rarely paid back but no sex. I realized this was a vicious circle I was in and it was not getting any better. But yet I still tried to hang in there.
Things finally came to a head when her roommate let it slip that she was screwing some guy that she had just met two weeks prior. I had known her for over a year. I was so pissed off that I stopped calling her, whenever she called I let her know I was busy and would call her back later. I never did.
It took a few weeks of blowing her off but she finally got the message, take me out the friend zone take me serious or lose me completely. Now I’m not going to lie I lost contact with her for about 4 months. I even changed my phone number. But wouldn’t you know it one late night there was a knock at my door.
It was college girl she had drove 2 hours from her school campus to our hometown to visit family and decided to look me up. I could tell she had been partying a little bit from the smell of alcohol on her breath. I let her in from the look on her face I could tell she wasn’t there to talk about old times.
We had sex that night and eventually got into a relationship that lasted about two years .She’s married now but we still talk on the phone on holidays and birthdays. And now we really are friends. But that was my choice not hers. Trust me fellows this will work.
3. Make her jealous
The third and final way to get out the friend zone is to try and bang one of her friends. In fact ask her to set you up with one of her friends. At first she may laugh it off like you are joking but let her know that you are dead serious. Let me tell you a secret about women fellows they are very competitive with each other, don’t let all that girl power talk fool you.
Women also talk too much; trust me they love to brag to each other. She has definitely told all of her girlfriends about the things that you do for her. All the favors and how if she snaps her fingers’ you come running.
And guess what those very same friends are thinking? The same thing she would be thinking if the roles were reversed. I would love for him to do those things for me. And if you let it be known that you are interested in one of them friend or no friend a high percent of them will date you.
She might be reluctant to give her blessings at first but she really has no ground to stand on. If you are truly her friend she would want to see you happy right?
Things to ask her “I mean we are just friends right?” “You don’t mind if I date her right?” “I mean you don’t look at me in that way right?”
Now the onus is on her. She has to make a choice lose you to one of her friends and watch the two of you do things you two used to do or give you the chance of being with her. It’s that simple.
Let me say this, all three of these methods can work as long as you are willing to commit to them But nothing is 100 percent so in the back of your mind you must accept the fact that if they don’t work you are willing to walk away from this chick forever. The bottom line is if she can’t see what a great guy you are then she doesn’t deserve your friendship or anything else.
Personally I would make her kick rocks and find someone who appreciates me for me. And don’t take her rejection personally if she can’t see that you’re a catch then to hell with her. But there you have it three ways to get out of the friend zone. Be sure to join me on YouTube to catch my weekly videos and also take a listen to my weekly podcasts.
Sincerely King Dose