I have been a game advisor for a long time now and I seem to always get the same questions. One of them being "King Dose how does one text a girl without looking dumb?" Well, first of all, I prefer face to face conversations and limited phone talk. Vocal inflections are important when you spit game to a female. Body language and eye contact are very important also. And on a side note seasoned players don’t get girls numbers they give their numbers to girls and tell them when to call. But that’s some upper-level player game so let’s just stick to the basics and crawl before we run marathons.
For all of those who want to learn the art of texting and how to text a woman I’ve got you covered player. First of all, there are three different rules when texting a girl.
Rule 1. Keep It Short.
When you first meet a woman you want your texts to be short and straight to the point. You don’t want to write essays or book reports poindexter. If it’s your first text after meeting her you should send something like “hey this is Jay we met at the club last night, what you are up to?”
She’ll either text you back and let you know what she’s up to or not, hell she might not even remember you. Trust me she gave her number to at least ten other guys that night. And you might just be a blur in her memory bank.
I hope that is not the case. When you approach a woman you’re supposed to leave a memorable impression with her. Don’t worry ill teach you how to do that in player university. The purpose of an introductory text is to warm her up before your first phone call. Which itself is another whole video lesson.
But let’s say things go smoothly and she texts back “Hey I’m at work but how are you doing?” You simply text back I’m good I was taking care of some business and you ran through my mind. But if you’re working I can try to hit you back later. Now let’s deconstruct that text message and what it’s saying to her
I was taking care of some business and you ran through my mind/ translation I’m out here getting money doing me not even thinking about you but since I have a minute or two what’s up?
But if your busy I’ll try to hit you back later translation/ I’m not really pressed to talk to you so you should be happy I texted, now are you really busy if so I might give it one more shot or I might not.
Let’s say she is really busy, OK, she has your number chill and let her text you back. If you don’t hear from her, give it a day or two. Text her back at a different time if you get no reply, fuck her she not interested or has a boyfriend.
And yes women do play text games and will not reply just to see if you are going to blow her phone up. Please don’t do that. She will put you in the stalker category plus it shows you have no patience or self-control. And if she does respond to your second text don’t bore her to death as I stated before.
So let’s rewind back to the first text let’s say she responds back “I’m not busy what’s up?” Text her back that you thought she was fly the night you met her and the vibe was good between the both of you and you wanted to take her out, if she texts back cool and she would like that too.
Ask her when is a good time to call her to set up those plans. After she replies back you text back cool and that you have to get back to taking care of your business, but you will call her at the time you both agreed too. It’s as simple as that playboy.
Rule 2 No Smiley Faces.
I’m going to say this once and only once no emoji’s! That’s right no smiley faces, hearts or hand signs when spitting at a woman through text. You have to keep it smooth and Mackish. Unicorns and happy faces are neither Mackish nor smooth.
Honestly, there are a hundred reasons that women shouldn’t use emojis either. Text abbreviations like wyd (what are you doing) and lol (laughing out loud) are OK but use stuff like that sparingly, unless you are a younger guy around fifteen or sixteen spitting at a teeny bopper from your high school but still no emojis.
Rule 3 No Sex Talk.
After numerous phone calls and you two go out a few times you can loosen up a little bit. Now listen, fellows, I said to loosen up a bit not get comfortable and start texting about sex.
A lot of my students ask when it is cool to start texting about sex. And my answer is always NEVER unless the two of you are already in a sexual relationship.
And since you two are obviously not, NEVER means NEVER. Sending her dick pics or asking for nude pictures of her is a bad idea, trust me women will always see guys who they are not screwing; that text about sex as perverts and thirsty weirdos.
If you are banging her, sexy texts are foreplay. If you are not it’s creepy. Even if she initiates the subject of sex and tries to open the door don’t walk through that doorway, it’s just another trap she’s testing you, player. Play it smooth and just laugh it off with a playful text back. Not only will this confuse her it will delight her. And she will think “damn he’s different than those other twenty guys sending me pics of their willy whackers on a daily basis.”
Now after you and she are intimate that’s a whole different ball game. If you laid that pipe right and you're inside her head like you should be, you’re good to go. And now you can send texts that read ” I'm on my way to get you on your lunch break to fuck your brains out. And here’s a picture of how hard it is for you”
Like I said fellows once you hit that ass it’s a whole different story. But for now, just follow these three simple rules, one keeps your text short, two no emojis and three no sex talk.
If you do these three things you’re well on your way to the promised land. By the way If you're interested in catching a woman’s attention check out my eBook 7 ways to attract women click here usually the game is to be sold not told but today it’s absolutely free.
Sincerely King Dose
There is a fifth dimension. In this dimension you’re constantly doing favors for absolutely nothing in return. In this dimension she tells you stories about other guys and how cute they are. You may also hear phrases like “I’m sorry but I think of you as a brother” or “why can’t the guys I like be like you?”
That’s right big fellow you guessed it, you have entered the friend zone!
So you really thought you were making progress? You took her out a few times. She has been calling you on a regular basis. You two even Netflix and chilled until you realize the chill part was just that chilling and nothing else. All of the sudden it slowly creeps up on you. The realization for her you are not boyfriend material. But you would make a perfect male friend. Sucks don’t it?
But don’t worry I’m going to help you get out of the friend zone. And right where you want to be and that’s between her erogenous zones. OK fellows so here it is the number one way to get out the friend zone is... are you ready? To stay out of the friend zone you have to never get put in there in the first damn place.
Disappointed in my big reveal? You shouldn’t be. If you get put in the friend zone it’s your fault and your fault only. Seriously think about it. When you first met her you felt her negative energy and you probably could tell she wasn’t interested in you.
But instead of cutting your losses you decided to take the buddy approach. And that was a big mistake. And even if you did start out with letting your intentions being known, somewhere down the line you ignored the warning signals. It’s like I said before stay out of the friend zone either she takes you serious from the start or you charge her to the game and move to the next female.
By never letting her forget that you want to be more than friends. She can never put you in that category. I don’t care how much she claims that you’re a nice guy, your reply should be thanks but I still want to have sex with you.
When she says you’re like a brother to me that’s nice but I’m not your brother and I want to have sex. And guys don’t actually use those words be creative with your reply but make sure it has the same intent. Now me I will actually say those words, but my swag is on 100 and my confidence level is off the roof. But like I said be creative and respectful but make it plain and clear you want more than a friendship
OK now if you have been in the friend zone for a while you can’t take the I’m trying to have sex approach. You already let it go too far. She is use to you being in that friend zone and has no intentions of letting you out.
But don’t worry I got your back. Here are three surefire ways to get out of the friend zone.
1. Stop being so damn available.
Stop letting her take advantage of you and your time. When she needs a favor let her know you are busy or at least charge her for it. Hanging pictures, moving furniture and paying for car repairs are boyfriend chores. And since you are not her boyfriend she shouldn’t expect those favors from you.
If you don’t like confrontations then go straight to number two.
That’s right ghost her cock teasing ass. Disappear for a while let her miss what she has been taking for granted. When I was younger I was friends with this one chick let’s call her college girl. After taking her out and loaning her money college girl still put me in the friend zone. I took her on Expensive dates but no sex, nice gifts but no sex. I even loan her money that she rarely paid back but no sex. I realized this was a vicious circle I was in and it was not getting any better. But yet I still tried to hang in there.
Things finally came to a head when her roommate let it slip that she was screwing some guy that she had just met two weeks prior. I had known her for over a year. I was so pissed off that I stopped calling her, whenever she called I let her know I was busy and would call her back later. I never did.
It took a few weeks of blowing her off but she finally got the message, take me out the friend zone take me serious or lose me completely. Now I’m not going to lie I lost contact with her for about 4 months. I even changed my phone number. But wouldn’t you know it one late night there was a knock at my door.
It was college girl she had drove 2 hours from her school campus to our hometown to visit family and decided to look me up. I could tell she had been partying a little bit from the smell of alcohol on her breath. I let her in from the look on her face I could tell she wasn’t there to talk about old times.
We had sex that night and eventually got into a relationship that lasted about two years .She’s married now but we still talk on the phone on holidays and birthdays. And now we really are friends. But that was my choice not hers. Trust me fellows this will work.
3. Make her jealous
The third and final way to get out the friend zone is to try and bang one of her friends. In fact ask her to set you up with one of her friends. At first she may laugh it off like you are joking but let her know that you are dead serious. Let me tell you a secret about women fellows they are very competitive with each other, don’t let all that girl power talk fool you.
Women also talk too much; trust me they love to brag to each other. She has definitely told all of her girlfriends about the things that you do for her. All the favors and how if she snaps her fingers’ you come running.
And guess what those very same friends are thinking? The same thing she would be thinking if the roles were reversed. I would love for him to do those things for me. And if you let it be known that you are interested in one of them friend or no friend a high percent of them will date you.
She might be reluctant to give her blessings at first but she really has no ground to stand on. If you are truly her friend she would want to see you happy right?
Things to ask her “I mean we are just friends right?” “You don’t mind if I date her right?” “I mean you don’t look at me in that way right?”
Now the onus is on her. She has to make a choice lose you to one of her friends and watch the two of you do things you two used to do or give you the chance of being with her. It’s that simple.
Let me say this, all three of these methods can work as long as you are willing to commit to them But nothing is 100 percent so in the back of your mind you must accept the fact that if they don’t work you are willing to walk away from this chick forever. The bottom line is if she can’t see what a great guy you are then she doesn’t deserve your friendship or anything else.
Personally I would make her kick rocks and find someone who appreciates me for me. And don’t take her rejection personally if she can’t see that you’re a catch then to hell with her. But there you have it three ways to get out of the friend zone. Be sure to join me on YouTube to catch my weekly videos and also take a listen to my weekly podcasts.
Sincerely King Dose
So you want to become an alpha male? Well believe it or not you’re halfway there. No seriously you are. And I’ll tell you why, because mindset is everything. It’s at least fifty percent of the work. According to Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck, your beliefs play a pivotal role in what you want and whether you achieve it. But hold on we are getting ahead of ourselves so let’s slow down.
And let’s go over the basics first.
1. What is an alpha male?
Essentially an alpha male is a leader a dominant man who is filled with confidence. In studies of social animals, the highest ranking individual is sometimes designated as the alpha. A beta is below him kind of like a soldier or grunt and an omega well, they are the lowest type of male. Basically they are whipping boys. Women love targeting these types of guys. They are the idiots who pay rent and buy expensive dinners for nothing in return. The ones who get friend zoned every single time. Being a beta is not too bad but an omega is a big no!
Let me break this down in players term an alpha is a man who is not afraid to go after what he wants. It doesn’t matter if its money, women, or cars. We don’t kiss ass, we have high levels of confidence and we choose to take a masculine approach when it comes to living life.
If you’re a beta or omega I suggest you watch every single video I drop on YouTube.
2. Will I get beautiful girls?
Long answer short, yes but that isn’t why you should be doing it. OK, that’s part of why you should be doing it. But getting pussy shouldn’t be your only motivation Bucko. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again women are attracted to masculinity like fish are to a wiggling worm on a hook. So yes you will get women and the best part is after you turn into an alpha, you will get the women that you want. You know the ones you only dream about.
3.Do I have to be a jerk?
You have been listening to these fake pick up artist that’s not who an alpha is. The alpha male you are thinking about is an act that is performed by insecure males usually in their teens that act tough, are loud, and have to be the center of attention. To revel in your masculinity is the core of being a true alpha male. I will keep saying it one hundred times it’s all about your mindset. You have to be prepared to deal with any type of conflict no matter what the circumstances. It’s not about being a jerk but it is about being mentally strong and not caring what others think about you.
Don't be defeated by fear. I am well aware the journey won’t be easy but it will be well worth it. The enjoyment you will feel from finally becoming your own man is a feeling that’s hard to explain. And the best part is I will teach you how to mentally seduce a woman.
For example Attraction works when a woman’s negative emotions are slightly more elevated than her positive emotions. yet both must be simultaneously stimulated. I bet you didn’t know that did you? Figuring out women is some deep shit Bucko.
4.Do I have to get in shape?
Yes but let’s make a few things clear you don’t have to be a bodybuilder or look like Captain America. You can be a heavyset guy just not sloppy. You can be a skinny guy just not bony. When you tone up or slim down your clothes just seem to fit better. You feel better and you look better. Women notice this trust me they will notice.
You don’t have to become a gym rat. You can go to YouTube find a few popular workout channels and follow them. Then go buy a workout mat and a few stretch bands. Then set a certain time to work out three times a week. And cut the fast food out there is nothing wrong with adding a few fruits and vegetables to your menu.
5. How do you become an alpha male?
First of all you have to have self-awareness. You must admit your weaknesses and commit to correcting them. After self-awareness its self-confidence this time you will find your strengths and amplify them. Changing your mindset is up next, like I said before its fifty percent of the game. You have to know your worth and never settle for anything less.
If you can master these steps you will become an alpha male. It won’t be easy at first and it won’t happen overnight. You may even fail a few times and catch yourself slipping back into beta or omega territory. But eventually it will happen. And here’s a warning people are very intimidated by alphas. A study at Harvard business review did a study on this.
If you really want to change your life you will. And if you need help I’m there for you in fact I have a course coming soon to teach guys like you how to do this. Click the link and sign up for my email list and when the course is done I will send you an invite. I will also send you tips from time to time to help you along on your journey. What have you got to lose?
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Sincerely King Dose
Once upon a time, there was a prince. This Prince was strong and brave but instead of learning how to use a sword to fight off dragons. The prince liked playing in the Queen’s makeup kit and trying on her wigs. Listen to me carefully, if this is the new masculinity I don’t want any parts of it!
GQ magazine put an issue out a few months ago with music producer Pharrell Williams on the cover. He was wearing a dress. I am all for artistic freedom and people being who they want to be.
But when I see the media and feminazi society making a coordinated effort to change what masculinity is, well dammit I do have a problem with that.
You can call me all the names that you want but it’s time to speak truth to power. Feminists love to use the word toxic masculinity. But you never hear them using the words toxic femininity, I wonder why not? I’ll tell you why not because it’s not part of their agenda. Their agenda is to destroy masculinity.
For years these nitwits have been trying to blur the lines between genders. But no matter how hard they try it will never take. Why not? Humans cannot change millions of years of programming. It’s in the D.N.A. baby it’s in the D.N.A. Since day one women have been nurturers and men have been providers.
To be a nurturer one must exhibit certain qualities like sensitivity and patience. To be a provider you must have strength, leadership and logic among other qualities. This is not to say that women can’t do most of the things that men can do, if a woman puts her mind to it I’m sure that she can.
There are traditional male roles that women can excel at but can they be superior at these things. Here is an example be it a basic one. Let's take a pro female basketball team and put them against a pro male basketball team.
Who do you think would win nine times out of ten? Take emotions out of it and just be honest when you answer the question. Of course the males would win. Would every game be a blow out maybe not, personally I think so but that’s just my personal opinion and not a fact.
But what is a fact is that there are some things men can do that women just can’t or were never meant to do. Just like there are things women can do that men are not meant to do. We are not made alike no matter how much these feminists cry foul and huff and puff. Look I can try to explain biology to you all day until I’m blue in the face.
But let’s switch it up and talk psychology for a minute. Why would any straight masculine man in his right mind even desire to wear a dress? My best guess is that man is not masculine nor straight. And that’s OK, be yourself sis, but stop trying to push your behavior off as the new masculinity because it is not.
The bottom line is the GQ masculinity issue is a fairy tale. You should read it, laugh then throw it in the garbage where it belongs.
Contrary to popular belief among romantic movie fans, no woman wants to spread her legs for a wimp. I know that sounds harsh but it’s the got damn truth. I am not here to Bullshit you player. I am here to enlighten you. If you want an endless stream of top notch pussy well the truth is to have that, you can’t be a pussy.
I have been coaching men for years on ways to better themselves and how to get women that they only use to dream of. Like I said before I’m not here to bullshit you. My philosophy is simple your masculinity is the key to opening up her femininity.
It really is that simple, women love men, real men. All this metro sexual crap that society has been feeding us for the last twenty or so years, is pure nonsense. I have no problem with women expressing themselves and spreading their wings. But not at the cost of my manhood.
And that’s what a lot of these feminists movements are really about. They don’t care about equality they care about gaining power and having the freedom to use it to control men. But that’s another story for another time right now we are talking about you.
That’s right you. And I know you well. How? Well because I use to be you. It was a long damn time ago but my memory is pretty good. I remember having anxiety when it came to being around women. Not wanting to say the wrong things not wanting to look like an idiot. And somehow the situation always seemed to end up that way. Her rolling her eyes walking away while im standing there looking like a Dudley Do-Right. That is until I did a total redo and became the man I was born to be.
And listen closely I am not saying the guy that I was or that you are right now is not a good person. I’m just saying that work still needs to be done to complete the puzzle. And that’s why I’m here to help you do that. In all reality I was content with my private coaching business and making a living doing that. But many of my clients have urged me to share my game with more guys using a bigger platform.
So I decided to come out of the woodwork and do just that. Here’s the deal. You can join Player’s University and get on the fast track of living your best life but if you’re not ready to go all in right now then watch the YouTube videos and buy one of the books. The info I give out in them is priceless. That’s it for now gentleman I will see you in the next blog post. If you have any questions follow me on facebook.
SINCERELY KING DOSE