As you all know I teach an online course on how to attract women. One of my students asked a very interesting question the other day. He asked should a player date strippers. And if yes how do you date a stripper? Well anything is possible but my question to him was why would you want to?
Is it because you think they will be easier to get into bed ? Do you really want to be with someone who works in the sex industry? But like most guys he didn’t want to get introspective or go that deep into his own mindset. He just wanted to bang strippers. So since he has asked I shall give. If you frequent strip clubs on a regular basis those strippers already know your face.
Most will see you as just a customer. Some will also see you as a trick. if this is the case she is probably turning tricks. And if she is you shouldn’t want to date her anyway. I'm not downing prostitutes. I really try to not judge people for the decisions that they make in their lives But we are players not pimps. The pimp and hoe world is a whole different monster to deal with my guy.
Now if she is just a stripper who sees you as a customer cool lets go from there. Now here is more bad news she just sees you as a dollar sign no different than any other guy in the club paying for a lap dance. But here is the good news. Your boy King Dose has the keys to the castle.
I have pulled a few strippers in my life time and just like any other woman they are full of insecurities and issues. You would think someone who takes their clothes off for a living would be full of confidence. But strippers have their own set of neurosis.
First of all find a new club to go to or at least stop going to the one you frequent for a few months. Now let’s get down to business. There are five different types of strippers you must learn how to spot. 1. The call girl stripper. We have already scratched her off the list so if you meet this type of stripper leave her be. 2 the hustler stripper. This girl is serious about her money either you pay or you go.
She has no time for your small talk. All she wants is to get you in the back and bleed you dry from lap dances.
There is no negotiating with her. The only language she speaks is currency, Period. 3. The drugged out stripper. She needs to be high all of the time. Whether its pills, liquor or coke she needs her special medicine just to make It through the night.
This girl is on a downward spiral don’t you even think about playing captain save a hoe. Let her go. 4. Daddy’s girl. This stripper has daddy issues hence the name daddy's girl. She never really had a strong father figure in her life. A high percentage of these chick have been abused, sad but true.
A friend or former boyfriend probably introduced her to the strip game and she has gotten addicted to the money and is comfortable with being there.
5. The college stripper. She there temporarily and she really is going to school and trying to better herself.
But books and classes cost money so she is doing what she has to do to get to where she needs to be. You want to stay away from one, two and three. Your chances will be better with four and five.
Now I will say this, if the hustler stripper sees a way that she can get bread with you and not just from you. She may be open to kick it with you. But she has to see an upside to it for her and her pocket book.
So let’s say you meet daddy’s girl or college stripper. How do you get her to go out with you? Well you have to get into her mind. She has fifty guys every night if not more hitting on her, or worse grabbing on her and fondling her.
Men are a blur to her. Everyone is a potential customer not a soulmate. Truthfully she has a poor image of men by now. When she approaches you and asks would you like a dance offer to buy her a drink instead.
If she is one or two she will just move on, plus the call girl stripper would ask if you want a good time or not. If she is three she may take you up on it but after a few minutes you can tell if she is a druggie or not. Just peep out her demeanor.
She will already be high and spaced out or itching for a hit. Now if four or five take you up on your offer they will sit for a few minutes but that’s it.
They have money to make so after that drink she will say thank you and move on. It’s up to you to use those few minutes that you have to qualify her and see is she is prime for taking directions.
When you introduce yourself she will give you her stripper name. Don’t push the issue and try to get her real name that will come later.
If you came with friends let her know that they forced you to come and you usually don’t go to strip clubs. If you are by yourself tell her you were bored and wanted to get a drink and this was the first place that you saw.
What this does is let her know from jump that you are not just another customer looking for a lap dance. Like I said before you only have a few minutes to make a good impression on her. Before I continue Let me give you one of life’s little secrets.
Every single person on this planet is about self-preservation and the pursuit of personal gain. As you certify her that must be in the back of your mind. People want to know what it is that you can do for them, not the other way around. Why should you be the guy she lets enter behind the invisible velvet rope?
Why should you have access to her personal life? So here is some generic game you can shoot at her real fast. Let her know what you do for a living and make it sound successful. Next say to her verbatim.
“It’s something about you that's different than the rest of these girls. I can sense it. Dancing is just something you’re doing for now what else do you have planned for your life?”
If she the college stripper, she will say that she is in school. If not she is most likely a daddy’s girls and will say something to the effect of “not really I just like to dance.”
OK, she’s a daddy's girl. She is not used to being around thorough men. She is used to dealing with perverts and losers who look at her like a piece of meat.
And that is the reason you always keep eye contact. Trust me she will notice that you are not looking at her tits or ass. After a little more small talk you should be the one who suggest that she should get back to work.
Let her know that you don’t want her to miss out on any money. But to check back with you later for a dance, or to just come back between songs for another drink and small talk. I usually don’t keep buying drinks for one woman at a night club.
But this is different, she is a stripper and you don’t want to look cheap. Plus you just made the table you’re sitting at her break spot whenever she wants to chill out and have a free drink.
Trust me she will be back. When she comes back this is the time when you should let her know that it would benefit her to really get to know you and why. Let her know that she seems smart and you have a few business ideas to run pass her.
If she presses you about the business say you want to invest in selling women clothing or make up. And you need a woman’s touch since that is not your expertise.
Break down how much money is involved and don’t be afraid when you’re paying for them drinks to flash a nice roll of money.
I said flash it not spend it. After a little more small talk ask her would it be cool to take her out to lunch or breakfast to pick her brain.
Right about now she is confused and doesn’t know what to think about you. But one thing she does knows for sure is that you are not like these other guys, so most likely she will say yes.
Trade numbers tell her you got business to take care of in the a.m. so you’re out. And there you have it your foot is in the door.
Now it’s up to you to keep spitting that A 1 game into her ear until she is giving you private lap dances in your bedroom. And oh ya, here's a couple of rules you have to follow after you and her are having entanglements.
One. Do not I repeat do not become the jealous guy who gets mad every time you see a guy hitting on her at the club. You are not her boyfriend your just kicking it with her. Plus this is where you met her at. You knew the job was dangerous before you took It bucko.
Players never become emotionally attached. especially not to a stripper. You’re just asking for trouble your job is to have fun with her until you are tired of her. It's as simple as that.
Two stay alert don’t let her run game on you. Never forget that she is still a stripper. She is still 10 toes deep in that game. If she starts asking for money and pressuring you into doing things that you usually would not do. Drop her and try again.
Follow these rules and the blueprint that I have given you and you should be good to go. And don’t forget to download my free eBook, How to attract women. And also check out Players university click here Play on players.
Sincerely King Dose