There she is player standing only 5 feet away from you. Eye contact has been made so what are you going to do? The next move is on you.
Do you approach her and say hi? What if you choke maybe you should just leave it alone it’s better to not look like a fool. And just like that, you watch the girl of your dreams walk away never to be seen again.
You’ve always got the memories of the two minutes of awkward silence that the two of you shared. Look I don’t want his to happen to you. If you’re not sure what to do or say to a beautiful girl don’t worry I’m going to help you.
Follow these directions step by step and you will be sure to score.
You have to be confident
Women can smell fear from a mile away. You have to be confident. I have said it before and I will say it again. Her getting to know you should be a pleasure for her. She should be grateful that you even took the time out of your busy day to say hi.
This is what should be running through your mind as you talk to her. Of course, I don’t want you to come off as being arrogant or an A-hole. But she does need to sense that turning you down would be a big mistake on her part.
The way you carry yourself, what you say and the vibe you give off will accomplish this. So try not to be nervous keep eye contact and speak up.
How, What, Where and When.
That’s right you have to use the how, what, where and when approach. A lot of you guys draw a blank when it comes to having a conversation with a girl if this ever happens remember my h.w.w.w. approach. How are you? What’s your name? Where are you from? And when can we go out?
A good player actually does more listening than talking believe it or not. I want you to listen to what she is saying and vibe off of her words and when you do talk ask strategic questions. Women love talking especially about themselves. All you have to do is interject every few minutes.
Other than that your main job is to eventually move the conversation to you and her hooking up. If you’re a seasoned player you don’t have to play the listening game because you already know how to spit.
Spitting is what we calling talking to a woman.
Ways to break the ice.
Jokes are always good but they have to be funny and not corny if you don’t have a great sense of humor then skip this one.
Or you could break the ice with an innocent question. Let’s say you’re at a fast-food joint standing in line next to a pretty girl you could say “I’ve never eaten here before. A friend told me about this place is the food any good?”
If she says it good or OK then asks her what does she suggest? After she answers introduce yourself and go from there.
You always need to pay attention and be observant. You have to realize when a woman is giving you choosing signals. What are choosing signals basically her flirting with you but trying not to be too obvious?
If she smiles at you a certain way that’s a choosing signal if she enters your personal space or accidentally rubs up against you, choosing signal.
Giving you constant eye to eye contact or even coming up to you asking a stupid question is just an opening for you to spit at her.
Let me tell you a secret that most women don’t want men to know but I'm going to tell you anyway. A woman knows after a few minutes of meeting you if she is going to have sex with you or not. That’s right it doesn’t take months or even days. Just minutes fellows. The onus is on you to mess it up or not and unfortunately, a lot of you do just that, mess it up.
How do I know this is true because I have had plenty of women tell me this. Why because we were cool that’s one advantage of having certain women as friends. You don’t have to bang them all player but well talk about that another time.
Now that you know what to do here are some what not to do when approaching women.
Don’t act overconfident a woman can sense when you are faking it so be confident but also be yourself. If you just calm down and stop being so nervous you’re probably actually a cool guy and that will show through.
Don’t try to buy her attention. I’ve talked about this before. Buying a drink or taking a woman out is OK. But paying rent and car notes or buying designer bags is a big no don’t do it.
Don’t ask her questions that she hears every five minutes. Be different stand out, instead of asking her can I buy you drink say something like what’s up I’m about to get me a drink what you do you want?
Don’t ask her if she has a man who cares that’s none of your business unless she wants it to be.
And lastly, never compliment her looks.
Do you know how many guys tell her how fine she is every day? If not let me help you out. The average looking woman may get hit on twice a day, multiply that by thirty. In a month's time at least 60 men have told this chick she is pretty, now imagine if she really is a dime, we are talking about five or men a day.
So chill with the compliments, let her mother tell her how pretty she is. Now let's rewind all the way back to the beginning.
There she is player standing only five feet away from you. Eye contact has been made so what are you going to do? The next move is on you.
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