Always carry yourself like a player.
What exactly is a player? Is he a pimp is he a gigolo or is he simply a ladies man? The truth is a player has the qualities of all of the above.
A pimp is an individual that manages women who trade sexual favors for cash. To be a pimp you must master the art of controlling a woman mentally and physically.
I have been around a few pimps in my day hell, a couple of them were my uncles. The way they dealt with women was a master class no college could ever teach you.
I remember my uncle Big Dondi threw one of his girls off of a second-story balcony made her get up dust herself off and hit the streets. If that ain't mind control I don’t know what is.
So a player is a pimp right? Wrong. A player would never try to manhandle a woman physically. That is below a player's standards. We have morals, no disrespect to you pimps out there.
A player does have to know how to deal with a woman mentally though.
A gigolo is a man who is good at sex who charges mostly older or rich women for his time. I had a friend named Morris who was a gigolo. He had women paying for his cars, apartment and clothes.
The problem was whenever one of these females felt slighted the cash dried up so he always was on the lookout for new customers. That’s no way to live.
So a player is like a gigolo, right? No. Of course, we have sex with women but it’s for pleasure. When a woman pays you cash she feels you are her toy and has certain privileges to you and since gigolos depend on that money they let them control them.
No one can tell a real player what to do and if we do make a chick break bread it has nothing to do with sex.
Damn dose, so what is a player?
To simplify it, a player is a masculine male who knows how to pull and keep a stable of women.
We know how to stimulate women mentally and physically. A player is verbally superior to most other men and his thinking and reasoning are always logical and on point.
A player has no intention of settling down at the moment or being someone’s boyfriend. He is having too much fun juggling beautiful women like bowling pins. In fact, let’s break down the different characteristics of a player.
A player knows how to dress.
He is up, on fashion and his clothes always look good on him. No saggy pants or wave caps at least not in public. A player always tries to look immaculate. His suits look tailored even when they are not. A true player can make most things that he chooses to wear look fly on him.
A player keeps his hygiene up.
Not that metro sexual stuff either but we are always groomed and shaved. We try to stay fit and in the best shape that we can be in. I’m not saying that you have to have a six-pack but hitting the weights and doing cardio is a must also watch what you eat limit that fast food bucko.
A player is confident.
Now let’s make this clear right here and now. Being a confident player doesn’t mean that you won’t strike out with a woman every now and then. What it means is that if you do strike out that you understand that it had nothing to do with you.
That’s right you didn’t do anything wrong. See a lame would think I must’ve said the wrong thing a player thinks maybe she’s married or lesbian or just not feeling dating men at this moment in her life.
In my mind, any woman not feeling me is probably nuts. So I feel lucky, because I potentially just dodge a bullet. Now it’s on to the next chick. That is the mindset you must have gentlemen.
A player doesn’t beg for sex.
Or pay for it either. A player doesn’t compromise his principles for it anyone. We don’t show any type of emotion towards women. A true player, doesn’t confuse happiness with love.
Here is what I mean. I might be happy about being with this woman but I'm not in love. I might be happy about the things she does for me but I'm not in love.
I’m happy that she cooperates in every way but never will I mistake that feeling of happiness for being in love with her.
A player is all about finding his purpose.
I go a lot deeper into this with my audio book worshiping the game. Link right here but I will say this.
No woman wants a man without anything going on in his life and as a man you should always have something going on. You need to find your true purpose in this life and start pursuing it.
A player never player hates.
If you see another player doing big things congratulate him and be sincere about it. Envy has no place in the heart of a true player you have to use that man’s success as fuel to drive your car to new places. let it motivate you to be better.
And if another player happens to end up with a female that you used to mess with or even still dealing with, so what?
She was never truly yours anyway these hoes belong to the street. Its dirt on your shoulder bro, brush it off and go to the next chick.
A player should always stay ahead of the game.
Always be thinking of your next move. You should always be at least two steps--ahead of the game. If you only focus on the present, you won't be able to handle the revolving door of women in your life.
Have a game plan for your player filled nights. If you're out at a club, think of your next location. You have to visualize how the rest of your night is going to go once you meet the female that you are interested in.
She might think you two are just going to breakfast after the club until she wakes up in the morning butt naked fixing you a pancake.
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Sincerely King Dose
how to approach a BEAUTIFUL girl
There she is player standing only 5 feet away from you. Eye contact has been made so what are you going to do? The next move is on you.
Do you approach her and say hi? What if you choke maybe you should just leave it alone it’s better to not look like a fool. And just like that, you watch the girl of your dreams walk away never to be seen again.
You’ve always got the memories of the two minutes of awkward silence that the two of you shared. Look I don’t want his to happen to you. If you’re not sure what to do or say to a beautiful girl don’t worry I’m going to help you.
Follow these directions step by step and you will be sure to score.
You have to be confident
Women can smell fear from a mile away. You have to be confident. I have said it before and I will say it again. Her getting to know you should be a pleasure for her. She should be grateful that you even took the time out of your busy day to say hi.
This is what should be running through your mind as you talk to her. Of course, I don’t want you to come off as being arrogant or an A-hole. But she does need to sense that turning you down would be a big mistake on her part.
The way you carry yourself, what you say and the vibe you give off will accomplish this. So try not to be nervous keep eye contact and speak up.
How, What, Where and When.
That’s right you have to use the how, what, where and when approach. A lot of you guys draw a blank when it comes to having a conversation with a girl if this ever happens remember my h.w.w.w. approach. How are you? What’s your name? Where are you from? And when can we go out?
A good player actually does more listening than talking believe it or not. I want you to listen to what she is saying and vibe off of her words and when you do talk ask strategic questions. Women love talking especially about themselves. All you have to do is interject every few minutes.
Other than that your main job is to eventually move the conversation to you and her hooking up. If you’re a seasoned player you don’t have to play the listening game because you already know how to spit.
Spitting is what we calling talking to a woman.
Ways to break the ice.
Jokes are always good but they have to be funny and not corny if you don’t have a great sense of humor then skip this one.
Or you could break the ice with an innocent question. Let’s say you’re at a fast-food joint standing in line next to a pretty girl you could say “I’ve never eaten here before. A friend told me about this place is the food any good?”
If she says it good or OK then asks her what does she suggest? After she answers introduce yourself and go from there.
You always need to pay attention and be observant. You have to realize when a woman is giving you choosing signals. What are choosing signals basically her flirting with you but trying not to be too obvious?
If she smiles at you a certain way that’s a choosing signal if she enters your personal space or accidentally rubs up against you, choosing signal.
Giving you constant eye to eye contact or even coming up to you asking a stupid question is just an opening for you to spit at her.
Let me tell you a secret that most women don’t want men to know but I'm going to tell you anyway. A woman knows after a few minutes of meeting you if she is going to have sex with you or not. That’s right it doesn’t take months or even days. Just minutes fellows. The onus is on you to mess it up or not and unfortunately, a lot of you do just that, mess it up.
How do I know this is true because I have had plenty of women tell me this. Why because we were cool that’s one advantage of having certain women as friends. You don’t have to bang them all player but well talk about that another time.
Now that you know what to do here are some what not to do when approaching women.
Don’t act overconfident a woman can sense when you are faking it so be confident but also be yourself. If you just calm down and stop being so nervous you’re probably actually a cool guy and that will show through.
Don’t try to buy her attention. I’ve talked about this before. Buying a drink or taking a woman out is OK. But paying rent and car notes or buying designer bags is a big no don’t do it.
Don’t ask her questions that she hears every five minutes. Be different stand out, instead of asking her can I buy you drink say something like what’s up I’m about to get me a drink what you do you want?
Don’t ask her if she has a man who cares that’s none of your business unless she wants it to be.
And lastly, never compliment her looks.
Do you know how many guys tell her how fine she is every day? If not let me help you out. The average looking woman may get hit on twice a day, multiply that by thirty. In a month's time at least 60 men have told this chick she is pretty, now imagine if she really is a dime, we are talking about five or men a day.
So chill with the compliments, let her mother tell her how pretty she is. Now let's rewind all the way back to the beginning.
There she is player standing only five feet away from you. Eye contact has been made so what are you going to do? The next move is on you.
Tell me below if this method worked for you are not.
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Sincerely King Dose
How to deal with women who hate men.
This may be the shortest blog that I have ever written.
How do you deal with women who hate men? Females who practice misandry.
You stay the hell away from them. Thank you for coming to my ted talk.
Lol. I’m just kidding there’s more to it than that. But my advice about staying away from them is solid.
The problem with staying away from a man-hater is sometimes they are difficult to identify until it’s too late. Ironically these types of women do not want to be stayed away from. They love confrontation because they know nine times out of ten that society will take their side.
I remember when the feminazis were trying to get New York to pass a cat calling bill into law. This meant that if you even complimented a woman, she could call the police and claim that you were harassing her.
I was going back and forth with some chick on Facebook when this was happening. She was a self-proclaimed feminist who agreed with this becoming the law of the land.
I suggested to her that men not even speak to women and just avoid them at all costs. I mean problem solved right? Wrong, this seemed to upset her even more.
Let me rewind that, she wanted men to leave women alone so I suggest that men leave women alone and she got mad.
What type of twisted logic is that? It isn’t logical that’s why I will always say that men deal with logic and women deal from emotions the yin and the yang of genders.
And here’s the thing it was never about trying to stop street harassment. For women like her, it’s always been about trying to control men.
I truly believe that the feminist movement has never been about equality for women but for revenge and having the power to hurt men.
I agree with equal pay and for women to be treated fairly and sexual harassment is a big no in my book. Fuck Harvey Weinstein! But to just want the power to destroy a man’s life unless he bows down to your command is hogwash.
As a seasoned player, I can spot a man-hater from a mile away. No matter how hard she may try to hide it. I can always see straight through that veil of narcissism and misandry. And since some of my young players can’t here are some tips and warning signs.
And let me say this first I dislike all feminists but a black feminist they take the cake.
They are the worst of the bunch. Because they get nothing out of the feminist movement except for the pleasure of being lapdogs for white feminists.
And let’s keep it real, black feminists don’t even care about black women. All they care about is access to white men and gay women, period.
And they also hate black men with a passion. These bed wenches will blame black men for anything.
If the weather is too hot it’s the black man’s fault. If unemployment is high it’s the black man’s fault. I don’t care what or who else did it eventfully they will somehow bring the blame back to black men.
Then you have those “I’m not a man-hater I’m just a conscious sister that’s why I criticize men” like actress Amanda Seales.
She is so good at playing this role. She will literally try to tear men down then at the same time claim that she just wants to see us do better.
And that motherfucker will keep a straight face while doing it. Case in point about a year or so ago she went on the breakfast club in the heart of the #metoo movement and claimed some guy she was considering dating made her feel uncomfortable over the phone.
And that afterward a few unnamed friends of hers who also knew him cosigned his problematic behavior.
Without any solid proof, this clown tried to #metoo that man and ruin his life. She never said his name but by the hints, she gave people were smart enough to figure out who it was. That poor brother felt so pressured that he had to come out publicly and defend himself.
I’m telling you women like her get off on this shit. Luckily she received push back from social media for her fuckery and dude was able to clear his good name.
Always lookout for the bitter bitches.
Hurt people like to hurt people. If she is always posting or tweeting about how men do her wrong or that men are not shit, run for the hills!
But some of you won’t because you are just as broken inside and have that captain save a hoe gene in your DNA. I’ll go deeper into that at another time and place.
If she is controlling that’s a red flag.
If she goes on and on about what she wants and expects, beware. There’s a big difference in expressing how you feel about things and barking out orders like a drill sergeant.
Also if you start kicking with a broad and she has nothing to say positive about any men in her life including her father. Keeps it moving Bucko she is a man-hater.
I don’t know the true reason these women grow up hating men. There could be a multitude of reasons from early childhood trauma, to bitterness from a gang of failed relationships. But what I do know is when you come across someone like this turnaround and walk away.
She is not worth pursuing there is no saving her she is an emotional terrorist and players don’t negotiate with terrorists. Why? There is no upside to it. I hope this helps you to spot women who hate men and to stay far away from them.
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Sincerely King Dose
How to avoid the trick box
Avoiding the trick box
First of all for those of you that don’t know what a trick box is, I’ll tell you. The trick box is a category that a woman will put a man into when she knows she can get material things from him with little or no effort.
The trick box is kind of like the friend zone but not so much. Unlike the friend zone, sex is commonly used to attain these things. True players avoid the trick box at all costs. Personally, I don’t have nothing for a bitch except for good game and even better dick.
That’s it, period end of the story.
But unfortunately for a lot of you guys, it’s not. Now let’s not confuse being in the trick box for buying a female a drink or taking her out on a date.
Those things are totally different than buying her a brand new Gucci bag or Chanel purse. Paying her rent is ridiculous, buying her a drink at the club is just a way of breaking the ice and being friendly. If I take her out on a date to a nice restaurant or even a comedy club it’s not tricking.
I like doing fun things. If the chick I’m with wasn’t there I would be doing these things anyway. She’s just my guest, nothing more nothing less. And don’t let these guys with money fool you.
There is an old saying in the trick community that goes it ain't tricking if you got it to spend. I call BS on that.
That motherfucker is lying to you, her, and me, and most importantly of all to himself! If your mouthpiece is tight and your game is on point you don’t need a million dollars to get her out those draws.
“But King Dose isn’t the sex the end result we want? So, why does it matter if you use money or not to get sex?”
No, sex is not the end result, if that was the case just go out and buy a prostitute on payday bucko and be done with it.
The end result is to control the situation and do things on your own terms. If that means having sex with women or just enjoying time with them so be it. It’s all about you realizing the full potential of your manhood.
And how do you do that? I’m glad you asked, by exploring your masculinity while at the same time understanding her femininity.
It’s all about the yin and yang. What's that? Yin and yang is a complex relational concept in Chinese culture that has developed over thousands of years. Briefly put, the meaning of yin and yang is that the universe is governed by a cosmic duality, sets of two opposing and complementing principles that can be observed in nature. I just choose to take the yin and yang out and replace them with masculinity and femininity.
One of my biggest pet peeves is the only fans site. For the life of me, I just don’t understand why a man would pay a monthly fee to see something you can see for free all day.
Chicks are making a killing off of these nerds. These hoes are becoming millionaires. No seriously love and hip hop star Joni Blaze stated in an interview that she cracked close to a million dollars her first year on the site. Oh ya, she also added that she barely got naked.
I have even seen porn stars with only fans pages. Porn stars, who have thousands of free clips of them getting banged on the internet. But you would rather pay to see it because she might moan your name if you’re lucky enough.
They need to change the name of that site from only fans to lonely fans. And you have to know that these women have no respect for their fans. I once got into a twitter beef with retired porn star Jada Fire.
She was on twitter ranting and raving about all the perverts and weirdos who kept bothering her and begging her to get back into porn. She tweeted something to the effect that she had been retired from porn for a few years now and how all you horny pervs needed to stay out of her DM Box.
I casually tweeted her back “hey former porn star those same horny pervs that you're talking about, are the same ones who use to jerk off to your movies and pay your bills.
When you were doing gang bangs on films back in the day you encouraged them to buy it and you also called them your boyfriends?”
Needless to say after going back and forth for a while, I was blocked. But she got the message, I’m sure of it and Jada if your reading this that was like five years ago and there are no hard feelings this was baby girl.
I just thought you were full of shit and had to bring you down a peg or two. That big head of yours was swelling up a little too big, you dig?
Now personally I don’t have anything against any of these women hustling and using only fans to get paid.
I just hate to see my fellow brethren waste their money and time when they should be sharpening the skills that the good Lord blessed them with.
Shoot a little game put their Mack hand down. And they can have all the women in real life that their little hearts can desire.
So, let’s recap.
What is the trick box?
The trick box is when women use their sexuality on men for gifts and money. Being put into the trick box is a big no-no. Trading money and gifts for sex is an easy way out and a waste of time.
Always taking the easy way in life will get you nowhere gentleman. You don’t want to be one of those weird creepy guys that pay for sex and live in their parent’s basement. No! You want to be a player you want women chasing you and begging for your time.
And it’s not as hard as you think for that to happen. So download my free eBook seven ways to attract women read the hell out of it and start putting the advice in it to use.
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Sincerely King Dose
Why kissing her ass won't work.
What’s up players? Today you’re going to learn a valuable lesson. There is an old saying that goes, good guys always finish last. But I’m here to tell you that is a bunch of B.S. It’s just not true good guys don’t come in last with women, lames and pushovers do.
There is a big difference between being a nice guy and a pushover.
That’s right and today you’re going to learn that difference. If you don’t remember anything else remember this one thing. What a woman hates is a man that she can completely control. They like to tell men what to do but at the same time, they don’t want a beta male.
They also dislike over sensitive men. “Are you OK? What’s wrong?” What can I do to make it better?” Man if you don’t shut the hell up! On the flip side if the woman you’re dealing with is a feminazi then your good to go. It’s all about domination and control for them. But a true player would never deal with a chick like that anyway.
A feminine woman wants a man who can not only provide but also a man who can put her in her place. Women are attracted to the opposite of themselves. Women deal with emotions men are supposed to deal from a place of logic. It’s what I call the yin and yang of genders.
I am not saying that men shouldn’t have any emotions. I’m saying to know how to control those emotions and think logically. Of course, you should show sensitivity to your wife and girlfriend to a certain point. Listen to her rant and give advice when asked. Other than that nod your head when she talks and you’ll be fine.
You don’t have time to be a part-time Dr. Phil.
When dealing with a flock of females, Players don’t give advice we give direction and instructions. Let her talk to her mother about her problems. Your only concern should be when, where, and how to hit that ass and when you can hit it again.
I know guys who think to be the nice guy will get them where they want to be with women. When in all actuality it only gets them a one-way ticket to the friend zone. And yes there are ways to get out the friend zone I dropped a video on this already click here to check that video out or check my playlist on YouTube for it.
Am I saying be a total asshole towards women? No. What I am saying is you have to let her know you don’t have time for games or mood swings. When I was younger I used to work at the mall as a janitor. It was one of the first jobs I ever had. There was a chick named Robin who had just got hired on. Man, was she fine; imagine a high yellow Halle Berry but with a body twice as nice. She was built like an Instagram model. If I’m lying I’m flying.
Every guy in that mall was falling over each other trying to get at Robin. These idiots were buying her lunch and bringing her gifts. It was like a freaking movie, guys leaving flowers in our break room and cards with hearts on them. And even though I wasn’t a true player yet, I have always had a player's heart and player instincts to boot. I guess the old saying is true that the game is in you not on you.
I followed my instincts and my instincts told me not to be part of the herd, so I just ignored this chick. Now don’t get it twisted I thought she was fine as hell and would’ve loved to take a shot at her but I didn’t. Remember earlier what I said about having emotions but controlling them and using logic?
For at least three months I don’t think I said more than ten words to Robin. I would say hi or good morning at the time clock but other than that I was real standoffish. One day our boss told robin to take a bunch of empty boxes to the outside container. Since it was a big job he told me to go and help her out.
As we worked she started asking me questions I would reply with one-word answers. I could tell by the look on her face that this was confusing her. After a few minutes, she blurted out “do you have a wife or girlfriend?” I was like “nope I’m single.” After a long pause, I said” But maybe you can hook me up with one of your friends?”
She looked me straight in the eyes and replied “why not me you don’t like me or something? Am I ugly?” I laughed and was like no you’re straight. I think you're cool but you got too many of these lames in here hollering at you and I don’t have time to be just another lame That ain't me you dig?
"She smiled and asked "what if I want you and not them?" Let me tell you, something player, I was just as surprised as you are right now. I wanted to jump up and down and do cartwheels. But I chilled and just smiled and said OK well see.
After that day I would catch a kiss or a long passionate hug anytime we were alone. We hooked up a few times after work. I was really feeling Robin until she admitted that she had a long term boyfriend who was in jail and was getting out soon.
Things got a little weird after that because she started feeling guilty about cheating on him. Eventually, she quit the job and we lost touch. I saw her at a club years later with who I guessed was her jailbird boyfriend. I walked past and smirked. The point is no ass was kissed and I got what all those other guys were begging for without making a dam fool out of myself.
Stop trying to get in good with women by sucking up to them.
It’s OK to be a nice guy but don’t be a sucker. Players don’t give women money to pay bills, players don’t chase women they chase us. Stop calling and checking up on her every five minutes. And for god’s sake don’t beg and whine to be with her. I don’t care how bad you want her. Just stand tall in your manhood respect the game and everything else will fall into place.
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Sincerely King Dose
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