So you want to become an alpha male? Well believe it or not you’re halfway there. No seriously you are. And I’ll tell you why, because mindset is everything. It’s at least fifty percent of the work. According to Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck, your beliefs play a pivotal role in what you want and whether you achieve it. But hold on we are getting ahead of ourselves so let’s slow down.
And let’s go over the basics first.
1. What is an alpha male?
Essentially an alpha male is a leader a dominant man who is filled with confidence. In studies of social animals, the highest ranking individual is sometimes designated as the alpha. A beta is below him kind of like a soldier or grunt and an omega well, they are the lowest type of male. Basically they are whipping boys. Women love targeting these types of guys. They are the idiots who pay rent and buy expensive dinners for nothing in return. The ones who get friend zoned every single time. Being a beta is not too bad but an omega is a big no!
Let me break this down in players term an alpha is a man who is not afraid to go after what he wants. It doesn’t matter if its money, women, or cars. We don’t kiss ass, we have high levels of confidence and we choose to take a masculine approach when it comes to living life.
If you’re a beta or omega I suggest you watch every single video I drop on YouTube.
2. Will I get beautiful girls?
Long answer short, yes but that isn’t why you should be doing it. OK, that’s part of why you should be doing it. But getting pussy shouldn’t be your only motivation Bucko. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again women are attracted to masculinity like fish are to a wiggling worm on a hook. So yes you will get women and the best part is after you turn into an alpha, you will get the women that you want. You know the ones you only dream about.
3.Do I have to be a jerk?
You have been listening to these fake pick up artist that’s not who an alpha is. The alpha male you are thinking about is an act that is performed by insecure males usually in their teens that act tough, are loud, and have to be the center of attention. To revel in your masculinity is the core of being a true alpha male. I will keep saying it one hundred times it’s all about your mindset. You have to be prepared to deal with any type of conflict no matter what the circumstances. It’s not about being a jerk but it is about being mentally strong and not caring what others think about you.
Don't be defeated by fear. I am well aware the journey won’t be easy but it will be well worth it. The enjoyment you will feel from finally becoming your own man is a feeling that’s hard to explain. And the best part is I will teach you how to mentally seduce a woman.
For example Attraction works when a woman’s negative emotions are slightly more elevated than her positive emotions. yet both must be simultaneously stimulated. I bet you didn’t know that did you? Figuring out women is some deep shit Bucko.
4.Do I have to get in shape?
Yes but let’s make a few things clear you don’t have to be a bodybuilder or look like Captain America. You can be a heavyset guy just not sloppy. You can be a skinny guy just not bony. When you tone up or slim down your clothes just seem to fit better. You feel better and you look better. Women notice this trust me they will notice.
You don’t have to become a gym rat. You can go to YouTube find a few popular workout channels and follow them. Then go buy a workout mat and a few stretch bands. Then set a certain time to work out three times a week. And cut the fast food out there is nothing wrong with adding a few fruits and vegetables to your menu.
5. How do you become an alpha male?
First of all you have to have self-awareness. You must admit your weaknesses and commit to correcting them. After self-awareness its self-confidence this time you will find your strengths and amplify them. Changing your mindset is up next, like I said before its fifty percent of the game. You have to know your worth and never settle for anything less.
If you can master these steps you will become an alpha male. It won’t be easy at first and it won’t happen overnight. You may even fail a few times and catch yourself slipping back into beta or omega territory. But eventually it will happen. And here’s a warning people are very intimidated by alphas. A study at Harvard business review did a study on this.
If you really want to change your life you will. And if you need help I’m there for you in fact I have a course coming soon to teach guys like you how to do this. Click the link and sign up for my email list and when the course is done I will send you an invite. I will also send you tips from time to time to help you along on your journey. What have you got to lose?
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Sincerely King Dose