Always carry yourself like a player.
What exactly is a player? Is he a pimp is he a gigolo or is he simply a ladies man? The truth is a player has the qualities of all of the above.
A pimp is an individual that manages women who trade sexual favors for cash. To be a pimp you must master the art of controlling a woman mentally and physically.
I have been around a few pimps in my day hell, a couple of them were my uncles. The way they dealt with women was a master class no college could ever teach you.
I remember my uncle Big Dondi threw one of his girls off of a second-story balcony made her get up dust herself off and hit the streets. If that ain't mind control I don’t know what is.
So a player is a pimp right? Wrong. A player would never try to manhandle a woman physically. That is below a player's standards. We have morals, no disrespect to you pimps out there.
A player does have to know how to deal with a woman mentally though.
A gigolo is a man who is good at sex who charges mostly older or rich women for his time. I had a friend named Morris who was a gigolo. He had women paying for his cars, apartment and clothes.
The problem was whenever one of these females felt slighted the cash dried up so he always was on the lookout for new customers. That’s no way to live.
So a player is like a gigolo, right? No. Of course, we have sex with women but it’s for pleasure. When a woman pays you cash she feels you are her toy and has certain privileges to you and since gigolos depend on that money they let them control them.
No one can tell a real player what to do and if we do make a chick break bread it has nothing to do with sex.
Damn dose, so what is a player?
To simplify it, a player is a masculine male who knows how to pull and keep a stable of women.
We know how to stimulate women mentally and physically. A player is verbally superior to most other men and his thinking and reasoning are always logical and on point.
A player has no intention of settling down at the moment or being someone’s boyfriend. He is having too much fun juggling beautiful women like bowling pins. In fact, let’s break down the different characteristics of a player.
A player knows how to dress.
He is up, on fashion and his clothes always look good on him. No saggy pants or wave caps at least not in public. A player always tries to look immaculate. His suits look tailored even when they are not. A true player can make most things that he chooses to wear look fly on him.
A player keeps his hygiene up.
Not that metro sexual stuff either but we are always groomed and shaved. We try to stay fit and in the best shape that we can be in. I’m not saying that you have to have a six-pack but hitting the weights and doing cardio is a must also watch what you eat limit that fast food bucko.
A player is confident.
Now let’s make this clear right here and now. Being a confident player doesn’t mean that you won’t strike out with a woman every now and then. What it means is that if you do strike out that you understand that it had nothing to do with you.
That’s right you didn’t do anything wrong. See a lame would think I must’ve said the wrong thing a player thinks maybe she’s married or lesbian or just not feeling dating men at this moment in her life.
In my mind, any woman not feeling me is probably nuts. So I feel lucky, because I potentially just dodge a bullet. Now it’s on to the next chick. That is the mindset you must have gentlemen.
A player doesn’t beg for sex.
Or pay for it either. A player doesn’t compromise his principles for it anyone. We don’t show any type of emotion towards women. A true player, doesn’t confuse happiness with love.
Here is what I mean. I might be happy about being with this woman but I'm not in love. I might be happy about the things she does for me but I'm not in love.
I’m happy that she cooperates in every way but never will I mistake that feeling of happiness for being in love with her.
A player is all about finding his purpose.
I go a lot deeper into this with my audio book worshiping the game. Link right here but I will say this.
No woman wants a man without anything going on in his life and as a man you should always have something going on. You need to find your true purpose in this life and start pursuing it.
A player never player hates.
If you see another player doing big things congratulate him and be sincere about it. Envy has no place in the heart of a true player you have to use that man’s success as fuel to drive your car to new places. let it motivate you to be better.
And if another player happens to end up with a female that you used to mess with or even still dealing with, so what?
She was never truly yours anyway these hoes belong to the street. Its dirt on your shoulder bro, brush it off and go to the next chick.
A player should always stay ahead of the game.
Always be thinking of your next move. You should always be at least two steps--ahead of the game. If you only focus on the present, you won't be able to handle the revolving door of women in your life.
Have a game plan for your player filled nights. If you're out at a club, think of your next location. You have to visualize how the rest of your night is going to go once you meet the female that you are interested in.
She might think you two are just going to breakfast after the club until she wakes up in the morning butt naked fixing you a pancake.
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Sincerely King Dose