OK, picture this, you’re in a club, you’ve been checking out this hot girl for a minute and she is staring back at you. But there’s a problem she’s with four other females and they have been rolling their eyes at you all night long.
How do you get to the one that you like without the other four trying to cock block you in the process? Maybe you should just move on to someone else?
Naw, forget that this is when you go into player mode. It’s time to go on the hunt. You need to end up waking up in the morning with the one who has been soft choosing you from across the room. There are a few ways to accomplish this, lucky for you I’m about to tell you how
Buy them drink
I told you once before that women are competitive with each other. If you’re a decent looking man those four friends are thinking “why not me, why is he looking at her?” as a player you have to this physiology and work from there.
Slide over to the group be confident introduce yourself to everyone. Compliment at least two of them and buy them all drinks. Then ask a few questions while the drinks are being made. Here are a couple of examples. “Where are you girls from?” What brings you guy out tonight?”
When the drinks arrive, pay for them and do a toast, right after the toast grab the one you like and tell her to come dance with you.
Run your game
After the dance lead her to the corner of the club to spit your game. Now remember you don’t have much time. After those crows finish their drinks you have about 5 minutes or so before one of them comes to grab her from you.
What do you say to her in those five minutes? A lot. First ask if she drove with her friends are separately. If she came in her own car you are moving in the right direction. If she drove with them that’s cool you can get around this.
But if she drove and they came with her that could be a problem. Let’s say she drove with them all in one car trust me if your mouthpiece is nice enough she will want to go home with you. But she might not want to look like a hoe to her friends.
So find out first if she cares or not what they think. If she does then slide her your phone number and tell her to call you or text as soon as she gets home. If she takes directions well, she will do just that.
When you get her text let her know that you’re still up and about go to breakfast. Ask if she wants to join you. If she says yes we all know what breakfast leads too.
Bring a friend or two
Another way to approach the situation is to bring a couple of friends or player partners to the club with you. Let them run interference with the other girls while you spit at your girl. If your partners are as thorough with game as you are. The night should end well for everyone involved.
.This article is full of basic game but it should work for you and if it doesnt. You win some you lose some but you live to play again. Like I said before a lot of this is basic but I have some very advance stuff in the course i teach. If you haven’t checked out players university do so it will change your life forever.
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And until the next time. Play on player!
There she is player standing only 5 feet away from you. Eye contact has been made what are you going to do? The next move is on you.
Do you approach her and say hi? What if you choke maybe you should just leave it alone, it’s better to not look like a fool. And just like that you watch the girl of your dreams walk away, never to be seen again.
You’ve always got the memories of the two minutes of silence you two shared. I don’t want his to happen to you. If you’re not sure what to do or say to a beautiful girl don’t worry I’m going to help you.
Follow these directions step by step and you will be sure to score.
1. You have to be confident
Women can smell fear from a mile away. You have to be confident. I have said it before and I will say it again. Her getting to know you should be a pleasure for her. She should be grateful you even took the time out of your busy day to say hi.
This is what should be running through your mind as you talk to her. Of course I don’t want you to come off as being arrogant or an A hole. But she does need to sense that turning you down would be a big mistake on her part.
The way you carry yourself, what you say and the vibe you give off will accomplished this. Try not to be nervous, maintain eye contact and speak up.
2 How What Where When
That’s right you have to use the when where and how approach. A lot of you guys draw a blank when it comes to having a conversation with a girl. If this ever happens remember my H.w.w.w. approach. How are you? What’s your name? Where are you from? And when can we go out?
A good player actually does more listening than talking believe it or not. I want you to listen to what she is saying and vibe off of her words and ask strategic questions. Women love talking especially about themselves. All you have to do is interject every few minutes.
Other than that your main job is to eventually move the conversation to you and her hooking up. If you’re a seasoned player you don’t have to play the listening game because you already know how to spit.
Spitting is what we calling talking to a woman.
3. Ways to break the ice
Jokes are always good but it has to be funny and not corny, if you don’t have a great sense of humor then skip this one.
Or you could break the ice with an innocent question. Let’s say you’re at a fast food joint standing in line next to a pretty girl you could say “I’ve never ate here before. A friend told me about this place is the food any good?”
If she says it good then asks her what does she suggest? After she answers introduce yourself and go from there.
4. Always be observant
You have to realize when a woman is giving you choosing signals. What are choosing signals basically her flirting with you but trying not to be too obvious?
If she smiles at you a certain way that’s a choosing signal. If she enters your personal space or accidentally rubs up against you choosing signal. Giving you constant eye to eye contact or even coming up to you asking a stupid question is an opening for you to spit at her.
Let me tell you a secret that most women don’t want men to know but im going to tell you anyway. A woman knows after a few minutes of meeting you if she is going to have sex with you or not.
That’s right it doesn’t take months or even days, minutes fellows. The onus is on you to mess it up or not and unfortunately a lot of you do just that, mess it up.
How do I know this is true because I have had plenty women tell me this. Why because we were cool. That’s one advantage of having certain women as friends.
You don’t have to bang them all player but well talk about that another time.
Now that you know what to do here are some what not to do tips when approaching women.
Don’t act over confident a woman can sense when you are faking it so be yourself. If you just calm down and stop being so nervous you’re probably actually a cool guy and that will come through.
Don’t try to buy her attention. I’ve talked about this before. Buying a drink or taking a woman out is OK but paying rent and car notes or buying designer bags is a big no, no don’t do it.
Don’t ask questions that she heard before, be different stand out. Instead of asking her can i buy you drink, say something like "what’s up I’m about to get me a cognac what you do you want?" Don’t ask her if she has a man, who cares that’s none of your business unless she wants it to be.
And lastly never compliment her looks. Do you know how many guys tell her how fine she is every day? Let me help you the average looking woman may get hit on twice a day, multiply that by thirty. So, in a moths time at least 60 men have told this chick she is pretty now imagine if she really is a dime. How many men is that a day?
So chill with the compliments, let her mother tell her how pretty she is. Now lets rewind all the way to the beginning.
There she is player standing five feet away from you, eye contact has been made. So what are you going to do?
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