I am not particularly fond of online dating. I’m old school. I like to spit at a female face to face. No matter where I meet them, I’m going to spit that (A One game) at them. It could be in a grocery store, a library, or a bank. It really doesn’t matter to me.
But like any wise man, I do realize that times have changed. And different times call for different tactics. So I took a few weeks out of my time and checked out some of these dating sites just to test the terrain and here are my results.
It was like taking candy from a baby, easy work not even a challenge. A lot of you like the site plenty of fish so we will focus there.
The main reason I don’t like dating sites is that a lot of women use them to build their self-esteem up and to also try to find the man of their dreams. They think they can just type in what they want and poof its prince charming.
But what else would you expect from such emotional creatures. My experience on POF was mostly good of course there were a few bad apples. We will talk about them later.
Phase 1. Set up your profile
As far as your profile I suggest you put the basics on it. Like your height, weight, eye color and race. Then write a short precise bio no essays or novels gentlemen.
Tell her who you are what you are looking for and a few things that you like to do. put three or four pictures up and you’re done.
No fancy or outrages nicknames either. Smh. After I filled my profile out and dropped a picture I just chilled.
After a few days I logged back in and I had at least 30 messages waiting for me. But you are not me so here is what I want you to do.
Phase 2. Pick who you like
First find five of the best looking women on the site and message them.
Then I want you to message five average looking females, then I want you to message five ugly chicks
The reason I want you to do this is to show you that every chick on this site has an inflated ego no matter what they look like.
I also want you to understand if you’re going to take the time to instruct a chick it might as well be a top notch dime.
And the difference between an average one and a top notch one is not really that different.
Phase 3. Send a message
Now that we have your mindset right here is the message that you should be sending to these women.
Hey prettygirl112 or whatever her handle is I’m (Your Name). This is my first time checking out this site and I came across your profile. From what I read, you seem like a down to earth person. I think getting to know each other would be a mutually beneficial experience. I'm really not on here much but I will get back to you if you’re also interested.
Do not deviate away from the words that I have given you. Write it exactly how it reads. There is a method to my madness. First of all you didn’t compliment her looks; lames do that 24/7 that’s why her ego is inflated.
You didn’t ask her to Netflix and chill, you just left the door open to get to know each other. And lastly you let her know that you’re a busy man and don’t have the time to be checking a dating site every five minutes.
Phase 4. Relax and Let the magic happen
Now sit back and relax for a few days then log back in. You don’t want to rush things, it’s all about timing. While we are waiting I might as well get back to my results and my experiences with the site.
Half of the women that messaged me where Hail Mary’s. What’s a Hail Mary you ask? Well that’s a woman who doesn’t stand a chance with me but they shoot their shot anyway.
Needless to say I didn’t respond back to any them. Out of the ones who hit me up that were decent I choose the best one out of the group. And responded she will be my go to.
What’s a go to? You know when your top notch is not available and you just have to have sex , well just go to your decent chick who will most likely be available to knock off.
And the last batch who hit me up where what I considered dimes.
I shot a quick paragraph back to each of them saying that I was free tomorrow and would like to meet up for a drink .That’s right player I don’t mess around. I get right to the point. Two of them hit me back within minutes and I made plans with both at different times same spot. Another hit me back a few days later wanting to hook up next week. The fourth hit me back with a “damn you move fast sir!”
I never replied back to her being that I have no time for small talk. If she messages me again I’ll let her know she can come and give me head or keep it moving. it’s no loss to me.
You shouldn’t be as bold as me when you get your replies. I can do that I'm a seasoned Mack and it’s easy for me. You on the other hand need to feel the females out who messaged you back, before you try and go full Mack mode. By the way if the ugly chicks didn’t message you back, immediately go to Players University and sign up we’ve got work to do.
If you get a mix between the ugly chicks the average ones and the top notches, that’s a good sign. If you got all top notches to reply back than I salute you player. If all average replied you’re still good. But let’s go with you got a mixture. Do not and I repeat do not go back and forth for days and weeks with these women over this app.
You’re going to message back and forth for a few days at most and those messages should lead to a phone call or at least texting back and forth by the way if you haven’t seen my video "how to text a women the player way" its right here watch it when you get a chance.
Now once you spit that thorough game on the phone it’s time to meet up. I suggest somewhere neutral like a Starbucks or a park get creative. No movies or dinners yet that’s to personal and everyone does that .
Dress casually and don’t be nervous in fact if you download my eBook seven ways to attract women I'll break down everything you need to know in there and it’s free fellows just download it read it and follow the directions.
After your dates hit me up and let me know how things worked out. If you feel you need more training you can always enroll into Players University where I teach men the dating game from A to Z. Click the link and learn more.
Until the next time play on player!
Women love players. They may say they don’t but their actions tell a different story. You can be the nicest guy in the world but let a player like myself come along.
And she will throw you to the side like yesterday's newspaper. It's sad but true. I Know you're thinking to yourself " why is it like this?"
Since you have questions I've got answers for you. So continue reading on while i give you ten reasons why women love Players.
1. Players are confident
Women can smell fear and nervousness from a mile away. They hate weak men but what they do love is a confident man.
Players exude confidence. When you step to her with confidence her only reply can be “you had me at hello.”
2. Players are a challenge
Let me explain. Women are like children they have short attention spans. They get bored easily, so a weak and timid man is anything but a challenge.
Now a player, huh we are unpredictable. We are like a puzzle that they love trying to put together but never can finish it. But yet everyday they keep trying.
3. Players are desirable to other women
How many times do I have to tell you this? Women are competitive they like to compete over things and a man’s attention is also included.
When they see other woman desiring after a player they choose to follow suit. Don’t let that girl power talk fool you. When it comes to sex and romance it’s every woman for her self.
4. Players have their life together
From their money, to their looks, players have it all together and women are attracted to that. When they see a man with his stuff together it turns them on.
Players are educated, go getters, and intelligent. Women love that.
5. Players know how to put it down in the bedroom
In layman’s term players are great lovers. We just don’t jump up and down on a woman and say that’s it.
We pride ourselves in being able to take a female to the highest point of ecstasy and have her running back for more and more and more!
6. Players have silver tongues
We tell women things that they love to hear. We can bring excitement to their lives with just our words.
The way a player speaks to a woman is almost hypnotic like. Our tone of voice It puts them in a daze. Players know how to vibe with women and spit that A 1 game.
7. Players dress well and keep themselves in decent shape
Women love a well-dressed man who is also in good shape. I never said all players are built like body builders but most of us are not slobs and try to take care of ourselves.
Women notice that. They love a man with a healthy appearance. Think of it this way, just like we are attracted to a nice ass and a pair of big breast, they like broad shoulders and big biceps.
8. Players are masculine
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, femininity is attracted to masculinity. I call it the yin and yang of genders. There is no one without the other.
When a woman accepts her place in the game and a man does the same. The two opposite characteristics can actually exist in harmony and complement each other.
9. Players don’t judge women
Women feel comfortable around players they can let their hair down and relax. We don’t judge women. WE realize their flaws and attributes.
We simply let a chick be herself. Now it’s up to you as a player to decide if those attributes are up to your standards or not. You may choose to deal with her or not.
But trying to shame a woman and change her is not on our agenda.
10. Players are intelligent
Intelligence is one thing that you can work on. Reading, going to school and more will help make you more intelligent, and these actions are going to help you sound that way when talking to your next date.
You don't need to have a high IQ but at least try staying informed about things that are happening around you. High quality women are attracted to intelligence.
And there you have it ten reasons why women love players. Try taking on a few of these habits. I can almost guarantee you that it will change your life for the better. Also consider joining me and other players like yourself at player’s university, class is already in session we are just waiting for you. The Enrollment cost is $297
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Until the next time play on player!
You come home to find that your girl went to work and left her cell phone. You try to avoid temptation but you can’t. You go through it and BOOM!
Every fear you had about her being unfaithful is confirmed. The evidence hits you like a missile going one hundred miles per minute.
Finding out that you have been cheated on can be a tough pill to swallow. The sting from betrayal can cause you to second-guess yourself. And question your ability to trust again.
Why do people cheat who knows there are many reasons?
The question you should be asking when someone cheated on you is how do I get over being cheated on and how do I move on?
Still, it's crucial to realize that recovery and progression are achievable.
This all-inclusive guide will furnish you with practical steps and counsel on how to recover from being cheated on.
By utilizing these techniques, you can bounce back from this type of betrayal.
1. Let it out then let it go
It is typical to undergo an array of strong emotions when confronted with infidelity. Acknowledging and comprehending these emotions is crucial for the initial stages of recovery.
Feeling hurt and sad is a common experience when one has been cheated on. These feelings can be deeply profound. It is important to allow yourself time to grieve. Accepting the reality of the situation is also a vital step towards making progress.
You have to gain clarity about the circumstances surrounding the infidelity. This not only includes understanding why it happened. But also recognizing that it is not your fault. Every human being is responsible for their own actions.
So stop blaming yourself and accept that it has happened. If you have to, shed a tear or two then let it go. That’s right, I said to let it go because trust me your ex is not at home worried about what you are doing. So why are worrying about her?
2. Hang out with friends
In difficult times finding comfort with friends can be helpful. They can offer emotional support and the solace one requires.
In layman’s terms, go hang out with your homies. Being around them will take your mind off of the situation at hand.
Chugging down a few beers and having some laughs never hurt anyone. But don’t sit there crying about her and thinking a few pats on the back will make things better.
Your boys don’t want to hear that crap. They want to have fun and you should want to do the same thing.
3. Redefine yourself
Dedicate time to reflecting on your personal values and relationship patterns. Prioritize your own personal development and strive to become a more resolute individual.
Give yourself some time to consider who you are. What are your values, and your interpersonal behaviors?
Try and become a stronger person. Place an emphasis on mental fortitude and personal improvement.
I have a course coming out called Standards of a Man, which teaches you these things keep an eye out for it.
It will help you learn the things that your father should’ve taught you. No disrespect to those without fathers. But some lessons are just too important not to have learned.
4. Get Physical
Join a gym or buy home equipment. Physical activity can have positive effects on a bad mood. It can also help to release endorphins. Make frequent exercise a part of your routine to improve your overall well-being.
Try to look for new Interests and Hobbies. Finding new loves and pursuits that make you happy can be fulfilling. Hobbies can provide a sense of purpose and serve as a diversion from bad thoughts.
Take an art class, who knows you might be surprised and find out you’re the next Picasso.
5. Learn from the Experience
Use the experience as an opportunity for growth and self-improvement. Identify the lessons learned and apply them to future relationships.
Don’t repeat the same mistakes you made in your previous relationship. Do things differently. Start by stating your boundaries in future relationships.
Do this in a clear and effective manner. Healthy expectations can promote trust and help avoid similar circumstances.
6. Get back in the saddle
That’s right get back in the dating scene. There is an old saying that goes the best way to get over a woman is to get another one underneath you.
And when you do meet her don’t make her pay for your ex-girlfriend’s past crimes. She had nothing to do with any of it.
I’m not saying to trust her completely because trust is earned not given. You both deserve a fresh start. Remember the past has happened and you can’t change it so focus on the here and now.
Even while being cheated on is undoubtedly terrible, you must never forget that you have what it takes to recover and go on. You can reclaim your confidence, reestablish trust, and find fulfillment in future relationships.
By taking the actions suggested in this manual and giving yourself time to reflect on them. Keep in mind that you deserve affection and a lasting, committed relationship.
If you want to learn more I suggest you follow me on YouTube at A Dose of Game and don’t forget to download your free eBook 7 ways to attract women.
Until the next time play on player!
Sincerely King Dose